Tuesday, August 7, 2012

32 years...

It's been awhile since I've had time to sit and write. "The Life of a Missionary Wife" is very busy. We have been going back and forth across Michigan, and are preparing to make our way back to Indiana later this week.
But I really want to write about what's on my heart. Tomorrow, my parents celebrate 32 years being married. I am so thankful that God gave me godly parents who raised us in church and have always put Him, and then us, before themselves. My parents, in my eyes, are the perfect example of what God wanted a husband and wife to be like. They care so much for each other, even after all this time.  In this crazy world where divorce is so common, I'm so thankful that my parents have always been faithful and loyal to each other, and that they can still laugh and have fun together. I hope and pray that my marriage will be as strong as theirs is in 32 years!
While thinking about what makes my parents so special, I realize if I just strive to be like them in these ways, then I know God will bless my marriage, too.
1. My parents ALWAYS had us in church. We hardly ever missed. I remember one time when I was 10 years old I was very sick and my mom had to take me to the Walk-in Clinic. That was the first time I realized life goes on outside of the church walls on Sunday!! What a great testimony to parents who's daughter is so blind to the world outside. Thank you to my parents for protecting me from worldly things and raising me in church.
2. My parents always sacrificed. We were never rich growing up. But we were always given way more than we needed. One particular time that comes to mind is when I was in high school my brother and I wanted to go on a trip with the high school band and we needed money to go. My dad sold his old car in the shed, that he had planned on restoring as a hobby, in order that we could go on that trip. It did not hit me at the time as these events unraveled that this is what was happening. He kept it quiet. He did not complain about his sacrifice, he just did it. When I realized it years later, and even now, I still feel guilty that he felt he had to do that for us. But thank you to my parents for being such great examples of selflessness.
3. My parents always loved us. Of course we were not always the 'perfect' kids, but they love us no matter what we do! Completely unconditionally. Our house was always filled with laughter, and hugs good night. And now that I'm older, I realize we squeeze in more love time than we used to. And I love that! I love that we are still growing closer as a family, and this is because of the example my parents have been to us. Thank you to my parents for all your love.

To close, I cannot thank God enough for the parents he's given me. And I cannot thank my parents enough for all they've done for me. I love you with all my heart. Happy 32nd Anniversary!

P.S. No tears!

2 comments:

  1. At least the old car was kept in the family..along with the old Ford truck.

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  2. Yes, very true! TJ called the truck Fiona. :)

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