Tuesday, May 14, 2013

First Post from Thailand!


We have now been living in Thailand for a full month.  This time has flown by.  I am still getting used to the idea that I live here now; we’ll see how long it takes for that to hit.  Of course I miss my family and familiar things each day, but I have a peace and know this is where I should be.  I have so many interesting and exciting things to share.
Our first two weeks, we spent adjusting to the new time zone, and helping some of the Jones’ visitors with some construction projects.  One thing about living in a foreign country that most people don’t realize is that something that should take maybe one day to do, can take days and days.  Many different factors help determine this.  Here’s an example.  Jared and Danny were working on replacing a door frame because there was termite damage.  It took Jared several hours to pull down the old wood and yank the nails out of the wall.  Had he had some different tools not found in Thailand, this may have been easier.  But, he had to pull them down by hand and then work on getting the nails out of the concrete.  See, when they build houses in Thailand, they set the door frames first, and then concrete in the blocks around it.  Therefore, Jared had to chisel out the concrete (by hand) to remove the nails.  When it came time to put up the new boards, they discovered they had warped while being out in the lovely tropical humidity.  So a trip to the store was made to buy new ones.  And a trip to the store here is not just a trip to the store.  Normally it is a trip to several stores in order to find exactly what you wanted, and possibly involves a conversation with a policeman at a road block.  When they finally got home, then they had to hand cut grooves in the wood so it would properly fit in the premade hole in the floor to help stabilize it. So, this job that maybe should’ve taken a few hours, turned into a huge 2 day ordeal.  Welcome to Thailand!
We have been staying with the Jones so far, and will be living in their house during the time they return to the States.  I cannot say enough kind words about Danny and Rachel; they have made this move so easy on us.  Rachel has spent a lot of time cooking and cleaning for us, and helping me get used to shopping and cooking here.  There is still a lot for me to learn about cooking from scratch, and what is safe to buy where. That will come with time.  Danny has been helping us learn Thai and showing Jared how different items work around the house. (The water pumps, air conditioners, and actual way to build houses, are all different than back home, so Jared needs to learn how to fix things the “Thai way”.)  God has certainly blessed us with them and we cannot thank them enough. 
We have also been working with their church here, and preparing to watch over it while they are gone.  The people have been very welcoming to us and helpful in trying to help us learn how things go.  We are excited to be able to help this church while we get accustomed to being here.
As I said we have been studying Thai a lot.  I have sticky notes stuck around our room labeling items with the Thai word.  I know this will be a very long process, but we are starting to see that we are catching on a tiny bit.  It is so exciting to be in the market and understand when someone tells you how much money you owe.  Or even just pick out one or two words from a sentence, and use context to figure out what the conversation is about.  The hardest thing about Thai is that you can have one word mean 5 different things, depending on what tone you use.  (Middle tone, high tone, rising tone, low tone, falling tone.)  I am so thankful my parents made me take music in school.  The knowledge of music makes hearing these tones so much easier! 
Please continue to pray for us as we continue to adjust to our new lives here.  Every day we see and learn something new.  I have sat in some of the quiet hours of night and thought that I could not have ever possibly imagined my life would bring me here.  As a little girl, I never dreamed of even going on vacation outside of the U.S., but God has made this possible.  I have always liked these verses, and their message, but lately they have become more and more special to me. 

Ephesians 3:19-21
19 And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.
20 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
21 Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end. Amen.

Him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think.  He has certainly gone beyond what I ever asked or thought.  I love that thought.  It reminds me that He loves me enough to do more for me than I could ever think of!  I am so thankful for this opportunity, and am excited to share all my experiences with you.

Before I go, here are some interesting things that are becoming our norms:
- Stray dogs are everywhere.  I am a dog lover, but I am learning not to touch them as they carry many diseases and are sometimes mean.  Not touching them yet and the fact that I haven’t brought one home yet is true self-control!
- Lizards and ants in your house are totally normal, and should not cause you to panic.  This I have to work on!
-Driving on the wrong side of the road isn’t so bad, until you go to turn right, and realize last minute that you have to go across a full lane of traffic.  Turning left on red is legal.
- Just because people are smiling and pointing at you doesn’t mean they’re making fun of you.  Actually, they are probably very interested in your light skin and want to talk to you (and probably touch you). 
- Taking off your shoes in church can be fun!  Jared loves preaching in his socks, and it certainly keeps the church floors much cleaner.
- It’s getting normal to not see white people, other than ourselves, when we go out.   
- It is becoming normal to get your bill at a restaurant and not panic when the number is high and says something like 200.  I’d panic if it said $200, but 200 baht (Thai money) is only about $6.75.
- 100+ degree weather is normal this time of year.

Saturday, March 23, 2013

3 weeks til takeoff...


This is the first of perhaps many sleepless nights.  Not to say this is the first time I’ve gotten upset about the big change that is about to happen, but I guess reality hit that 3 weeks from today I will be moving to a foreign country.  It hit me tonight, a vision of me walking toward a plane, leaving my family and all familiar things behind me.  Everything about this vision scares and upsets me.  I know there will be tears on my face, and I can’t bear to see the tears on my family’s face.  In fact this is my biggest struggle with this whole thing- leaving family behind.  Therefore, I am making myself make a list of all of the positives that are about to happen over the next few weeks.

1-      We will finally begin the journey God has called us to.  We have been sharing our ministry with churches for a year and a half now; it’s about time we are able to do what God told us to do!
2-      No more deputation!  Living out of our car is very difficult and tiring. And our poor car needs a rest!
3-      I get to unpack all of my suitcases in a place I can call “MY house”!  And I get to decorate it however I want!
4-      I’ll make new friends.
5-      Learn a new language.
6-      See new places.
7-      And I get to take my husband with me!!  Not sure I could do this without him. Going alone would be much harder.  I think of some of my military friends overseas, alone, and am thankful God is letting me work alongside my husband.
8-      We get to do lots of shopping when we arrive.  For house stuff. Fun!
9-      We get to spend some time with our good friends, already living in Thailand.
10-       I can stop eating so much takeout food and start cooking again!
11-       Perhaps I’ll lose some weight.  Eating out all the time takes a toll on your body.
12-       Maybe I’ll learn to drive a scooter…
13-      After I learn to drive on the wrong side of the road.
14-      I’ll become a frequent-Skype-user.

This is only a few, all I could come up with in the middle of the night.  Reading back over my list, it sort of sounds like a bucket list.  Which is pretty funny, since a bucket list should take you years and I’m about to dive head first into all of them at once.  I know I need to be thankful.  I am about to experience things a lot of people dream about.  I could not have set all this up myself; it’s what God has called me to.  But even a calling can be extremely scary.  Please say a prayer for us, as we prepare the next few weeks to pack up our lives as ‘almost’ missionaries, and begin the life as ‘on the field’ missionaries.  Pray for me to look forward to the positive, instead of mourning what I’m leaving.  Pray for our family's to understand we love them and we are not leaving them, but instead going to follow the Lord.  And pray for my husband, J and that I can hold myself together to be the supportive wife he needs at this time!

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Just some thoughts

So much has happened in the past few weeks. We enjoyed our break at home with family for Christmas, but as soon as January began, we headed back on the road. We packed up the car (again...), made some appointments at churches, and off we went. We went to Pensacola to revisit some churches first, saw a few new ones, and are currently in southern Louisiana.
I am noticing something the more we travel, we live in a beautiful country. God creations are seen everywhere we go. Every city has its own neat history, its exciting places to visit, and we are loving getting to experience it all.
Along with that, we are meeting God's beautiful people. Just like the cities, every person has their own neat history and exciting stories. It's amazing how much life one person can live if they just take the time to live it. This is my new goal, make sure I'm enjoying every moment so that one day, I can share my story with someone else.
I am learning so much on this journey. And I thank God that he chose me to take it. Of course I miss home and I miss my family, but I could not experience such things if I didn't leave home, and my family is always there when I need them.
You know a lot of people have done this traveling thing, too. I know we aren't the only ones. However, I feel there are not many travel tips out there for people in our situation! So I thought I'd share a few...

- The culture of every place you go is completely different. Sometimes it's okay to ask questions or make statements outright; sometimes people will 'beat around the bush' to stay away from being too forward. For example, something I've experienced is wondering how I should dress to certain church events. Is this a formal event, or casual? Well, sometimes I just have to ask "What should I wear?" Some places I'll get a direct answer, from head to toe what is appropriate. Other places I'll get a 'whatever you'd like'. (I think this is usually a southern answer.) Well that leaves me back at square one with no idea. SO, point is, sometimes you have to ask for a more direct answer, and sometimes you'll get it no problem. Neither approach is necessarily right or wrong, but can be frustrating for a person like me who does not want to stick out!

- The weather changes every day no matter if we're staying in a city for weeks, or we leave and move on the next day. It's best to just pack every type of clothes you can fit in the car. Last week we traveled south from snow to about 60 degrees in one day. Very different weather situations, and different clothes needed. So it's just best to have all types on hand.

-When you have the possibility of being in a new place every week, it can be very hard to keep up with things like prescriptions. Therefore, I'd recommend you fill them at a place like Walmart, which you will find everywhere, and that keeps all your information in a database so any Walmart can access it all over the country. Come to find out, there are states that have no Walgreens or CVS's! (Or they are so far away from those little towns, that you can never make it there.) But almost everywhere has a Walmart. Good to know!

Alright, I guess that's good for now. Maybe this can help you if you are ever in a cross country travel situation! Have a blessed week! Until next time, much love, ~Kayla